Every woman is capable of having sexual intercourse and as such nothing makes you different from every girl out there.
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If you can only offer a guy sex, then there’s really no need for him to be in a committed relationship with you, he sure can get it anywhere, same applies to cooking and cleaning up after a guy. There must be something that makes you different, something that makes you stand out of the crowd, he doesn’t need a maid neither is he marrying his mum.
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As a girl child, you were most probably taught that you’ll only ever be good in the bedroom and kitchen that your duty is to slave on your husband. That’s why its no surprise that when we become grown women we think sex is the ultimate weapon.
Yes, sex is good, it’s something enjoyed by both parties, may be fulfilling even but after then what else can you bring to the table.
Here’s what I’ll tell you.
We live in a modern world where everything and everyone is evolving and with it the ideology and belief that women are only good because of their body or their skills in the bedroom. A modern woman knows that there’s more to life than her looks, she is a woman who has the ability to think on her own and can earn with her knowledge and skillset.
Sense Of Humor
A woman should have a strong sense of humor, she should be able to provide amusement and have the tendency to provoke laughter and she should be able to relieve the stress away from her partner
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They should be able to have random conversations about everything and anything and share opinions about the economy and politics. In all I’m describing beauty with brains.
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A man should be comfortable leaving his woman with his friends or family knowing she can absolutely take care of herself.
Supportive
Being supportive comes in different forms, but the thing is men are grown babies they also have problems and need someone they can discuss them with, someone who can rub minds with them and brainstorm together with them.
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Someone who would be there if they fall or fail and would encourage them. A man likes to know that he can count on his woman to help him with very important issues without the fear of thinking that she could ruin things.
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He needs to know that his woman can represent him in times of emergency and is sure that she'll deliver an A game for him.
Loyalty
This is easy because women are naturally loyal beings, we are nurturers and as such like to see things through.
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A man would want to know that his woman is loyal and can vouch for him anywhere, she’s steady giving him firm and constant support.
He would like to know that no matter what happens you’ll be unchanging in your friendship towards him and he can count on you anytime. He would like to know that he can trust you with his life.
Finance
An average man thinks a woman is an object, an object that should be bought and tossed wherever, what then happens when he knows that a woman can hold her ground, can cater and afford things for herself.
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A man is attracted to a woman who values money, doesn’t waste it on trivial things and can give accountability for his money and her own. A woman who can give what she gets offers a fifty fifty equation and sees herself as an equal.
Bear in mind that it doesn’t mean he won’t spend on or for you, he just knows that you’re a good investment and is worth more than an object because she brings her values to the table.
I'll like to know your opinions in the comment section.
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